“As I am strolling down the garden path,
I saw a flower glowing in the dark.
It looked so pretty and it was unique;
I had to bend down just to have a peek.
Hello old friend,
It’s really good to see you once again.”
Hello Old Friend — Eric Clapton
Last evening, active members and alumni of the Job Seekers Suport Network of Charlotte got together for a well-deserved evening of good times and good food. The meeting place was Cantina 1511, a fantastic spot in south Charlotte (web site; Twitter).
The roster/motley crew included these great folks:
Ken – a credit maven who has also become a trusted source on all things job search-related (you can visit his site here)
Roger – technical writer who I met early in my search at a bi-weekly networking breakfast
Tim – controller and financial whiz; fellow-commiserator
James – risk management guy and fellow native of the Garden State
Rebeca (who attended with her husband, a great guy) – she’s reached out to me a few times for help on her search and I always feel like I’ve failed her, but lucky enough to still be friend
Tom – an audit pro and all-around excellent chap
This is by no means an exhaustive list of all of the great people I have met networking over the last (has it really been) eight months. Even though my time of occupational inconvenience was relatively short, I’ll always be thankful for the relationships forged during that time: we share an experience that maybe only our closest loved ones can understand.
While we live in a time when nearly every single one of us carries a camera phone, no pictures of the festivities were captured. The picture below was the best I could find that captured the mood and good vibe:

The scene at Cantina 1511 (minus the dog)
The post-interview follow-up phone call
“I know we don’t talk much but you’re such a good talker”
Outtasite (Outta Mind) — Wilco
I have read a few blog posts recently entitled “what the movie (insert movie title) taught me about my job search.” While my blog weaves in my love of music, I am also a bit of a movie buff, so I figured it was time to jump in with my own take on this theme.
When is the right time to make the post-interview follow-up call?
Is there a right time?
It’s a fine line between calling too early, too often and waiting too long, which can result in outta site, outta mind. But, what do you do when that company is not getting back to you? The timelines of the job seeker and the prospective employer are rarely in sync, so how do you not become Mikey from the movie “Swingers”?
I struggle with this one, generally erring on the side of letting too much time pass. Do you have a rule of thumb when following up? What’s your approach?
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